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The sunflowers in our garden were enormous. They blocked out the sun for the rest of the patch. In the shade, with so many days of rain, everything grew, overgrew, wild and tangled. A mess of morning glories ravaged nearly everything in its path.

When we pulled the sunflowers out, after they died, I couldn’t believe the stalks, how thick they were. The bulk of them. “All this from a seed!” I kept saying. “Since May!” No one else seemed as impressed as I was, as surprised by the fecundity. The huge growth in a short time.

They were so tough, those stalks. Unpleasantly tough. You could build a treehouse out of them. I worried about putting them into the compost bin. They would take forever to break down.

There is a little bit of sadness in the end of a project. Even a shaky, uneven one. We didn’t post twice every week as planned. And for the past several months – more? – it has been mainly just me posting. This didn’t become the place for conversation and collaboration I had dreamed it might. One wants to write “but” and offer something to offset the disappointment —a lesson in self-reliance, a glimmering metaphor about finishing a hike alone. But no, I’ll let it stay as it is. I’ll sit with the disappointment and not spin it into something that attempts to obscure it.

Yet this ending is a beginning too, as all endings are.

Here we are at the start of the school year, and the start of the Jewish New Year, even as the days are growing shorter and the light is leaving.

With writing so often things grow, overgrow, wild and tangled, not what you intended. Maybe you hack away at the mess and find a treasure, or maybe there’s nothing there but emptiness, a patch of dirt, the chance to begin again.

Of course I’ve always known Jewish holidays begin the evening before, but until attending my first ever Rosh Hashanah service last week, I never stopped to think that the Jewish day itself begins in the evening.

The birds ate the sunflower seeds, the remains of the flowers and stalks are now part of the compost bin, ready for metamorphosis into dirt for the garden next spring. The light is gone, for today, this project over, but in the evening, on our way soon to sleep, the day is also beginning. Let’s dream it into something worthy of all the growth from this past year, and the many others we’ve already lived and bid farewell.



A Release

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I have heard people say they don’t like yoga because they don’t like the stillness, the lack of stimulation, all the time in their own heads. I love all those things. It’s hard for me to fathom why someone would not.

Tonight my teacher mentioned that some people resist Savasana (Final Relaxation Pose) in particular because it is the quietest, the moment you are asked to “let go” and “release.” A quick Google search shows that many refer to it as the most challenging pose in yoga. (For those who are not familiar with the post, all you do is lie on the ground; the challenge is mental.)

I look forward to Savasana all class. I have to will myself to stop looking forward to it and enjoy each pose, stretch into crescent and lean into warrior I and breathe into downward dog. Savasana is the reward, the payoff, the moment where, if I’m lucky, I find myself lifting off.

Today during Savasana, I couldn’t get the stillness I hoped for, instead I kept thinking about what I wanted to write here. I haven’t been posting much…the blog has sort of fallen off, as blogs are wont to do. But knowing that the project is coming to a close at the end of summer has brought a new urgency to it—What else do I want to say? What have I learned? Where has it brought me?

I want to bring in a piece my friend Amie Reilly wrote about staying in one place in flash fiction, and I want to talk about a woman I met a little over a week ago in Massachusetts who just opened an acupuncture clinic, and about how July four years ago was my first class in grad school. Somehow all these things felt intimately connected. But now I realize I need a little more time to make those connections clear. Instead of rushing ahead to cobble together that post I want to write, I’m going to take a breath and just post these few thoughts for tonight, with the intention to return here soon.